It occurred to me as my oldest granddaughter, Q, was helping me clean the dishes that we aren’t born knowing how to do this job. Thinking back to my childhood, I recall my parents teaching us how. (My first job was to clean the spoons. It was probably more play than work.) At almost ten years old there isn’t any part of kitchen clean-up Q can’t handle, with the exception of the big heavy pots and pans.

Now here’s the before picture of an “Advanced Lesson in Kitchen Clean-up”! This is my mom’s kitchen after a big holiday dinner. None of us really wanted to clean so we just stacked it up. Everything in this picture is dirty! Yes, definitely not the way to do it.
So, how to clean a kitchen – the ideal way:
- Start with a dish pan of hot soapy water. Then start cooking your meal or baking. Wash up as you go. When you empty a pan, fill it with cold water and let it soak while you are eating. Cold water is especially good for soaking any kind of starchy food like potatoes or rice.
- After the meal, start a new pan of hot soapy water if the first one is cold or greasy.
- Put in all the silverware to soak as you rinse the plates and get everything stacked up.
- Put away any leftover food. Put a label on it. Even if it’s only enough for someone’s lunch, say what it is or put their name on it.
- Wash the silverware, rinse and put in the drainer to dry.
- Next wash the glasses or other stemware, rinse and set to dry.
- Next clean the plates, and then any utensils (spatulas, wooden spoons, etc.) that you’ve used.
- While your dishwater is still fairly clean wash off all the surfaces in the kitchen – counter tops, the stove top, microwave, anything spilled in the oven, handles on the refrigerator, and so forth.
- Now do the mixing bowls or other preparation containers. (Prepare a new dishpan if necessary.)
- Finally clean the pans or the other messy, greasy, grungy stuff.
- Empty the dishpan and rinse it out. Scrub the sink and everything around it.
- If you are on your own on this job, you could cover the clean dishes with a dishtowel and let them air dry. Then come back later and put them away.
- But wait, there are still a couple more things to complete the job: take the garbage to the compost pile, sweep the floor and take the trash outside.
When I was growing up there were four of us kids and this nightly kitchen duty was divided up. I’m sure, because we were young, we resented these jobs. But, my memory brings this time back as lots of fun – laughing, talking, joking and, I’m sure, the old swatting each other with dish towels routine.
Now most kitchens have dishwashers and that’s a shame. There’s so much to be gained from these simple tasks. Even if by yourself, it’s a great time for singing and thanksgiving, prayer and meditation. Before the light is turned out on the kitchen, give thanks for it and the food therein. Sometimes the simple things bring the most joy.
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January 13, 2009 at 9:32 pm
Maranda
Thank you for posting that. It brings light to my evening after working on my kitchen. Ive been working on getting my routine down and this gives me a bit more understanding on how it should be done.
January 13, 2009 at 9:46 pm
Dave Roller (Home School Dad)
Thanks. I home school my 3 kids and my wife works outside the home. The teaching is more up my alley than the cleaning. Your post will be a great help!
January 13, 2009 at 10:18 pm
Mommy Bee
LOL I was thinking your ‘old fashioned way’ might be something like “Have the kids do it!”
Great job writing it all out though. My dad was a stickler about washign dishes in the proper order (his mother is OCD and a neat freak–she vacuumed the entire house twice a day!)
January 14, 2009 at 6:03 am
Kay
I *do* use a dishwasher.. but I empty it of the clean stuff before I begin the meal and cook ‘right into the dishwasher’… cutting boards and knives etc and then after dinner, the only things left to put in are the dishes we ate off of and a couple of pots and pans.
Great post, btw. It’s nice to meet you! : )
January 14, 2009 at 10:08 am
Bumbles
Hmmm. I hate doing the dishes so I highly encourage the wash as you go method rather than a big looming pile after the fact. I shove as much as I can into the diswasher. I love that sucker. Before we had one my hubby was the dishwasher. He actually doesn’t mind doing them – it is his quiet time where he vegges out to his music and works at his own pace. In great appreciation I tackle most all of the other household chores.
January 14, 2009 at 11:57 am
Kara
I had to laugh as I read your post. We don’t have a dishwasher because our kitchen is so very small and now that my 9 year old (my oldest) is washing dishes I am teaching him the same thing. I never thought about the fact that many of his counterparts do have dishwashers and won’t learn the “basics” for quite some time.
Thanks for this lovely post!
January 14, 2009 at 1:21 pm
Cerrin
Well I own a dishwasher…But growing up you never put something in the dishwasher with food on it…you will get mice and bugs…lol now they say you can throw it all in there…I dont. I tend to wash everything by hand. the only time I use my dishwasher is after a big party where everything is dirty and I can run a full load that night.
January 14, 2009 at 3:09 pm
MrsScotsman
“we aren’t born knowing how to do this job” I’m 30 and I find it very common for mom’s my age to not have a clue how to clean house. Many of these friends are military brats and we have recently discussed how our moms just did everything. I’m learning everything for the first time and taking my 3 year old along on the journey. Thanks for your post – especially the picture – it makes me feel better.
January 14, 2009 at 5:27 pm
Margot
Thank you all for your insightful comments. They show we all come from various backgrounds and circumstances.
Learning the basics as a child is a kindness for that child. He/she now has a skill that can last a lifetime.
January 14, 2009 at 7:15 pm
Amy @ Hope Is the Word
This is a really beautiful post, even if it is about cleaning up a messy kitchen. I agree that with the addition of some of our modern conveniences, we’ve lost something precious. Have you read Wendell Berry’s fiction? You would probably appreciate it.
January 14, 2009 at 9:01 pm
claire
Hi Margot, thanks for stopping by my blog. I really find this piece you wrote so wonderful. I grew up with helpers doing chores around the house, and when we migrated to Canada a few years ago I was stunned with all the housework I needed to do on my own and I was at a loss. I had no idea what to do. I sure wish I had this then. Ha ha. Anyway, I’m doing better now. My eldest son just turned 8 and I will definitely be teaching him!
January 15, 2009 at 6:17 am
Becky
Thanks for stopping by my blog – I am glad to have found a new blog to read.
August 11, 2009 at 8:12 pm
Dave Roller (Home School Dad)
I liked this post so much I included it a top 10 list on the most recent edition of WFMW.